Not really sure what kind of degree you are talking about but the situation is pretty much the same but the details arent exactly the same, like the job and the co-worker part. But the person yeah sure the same. This has happened so long ago now, like last year. Yeah I did go out with the girl already, for 3 months, didnt quite workout. As I said, its much better with the people you actually feel comfortable with - as in no awkward wfeelings when approaching them about something.

Well all I can say now is good luck to you and hope it works out.

To what degree, as in to what extent, or more specifically I was meaning "To what extent does your situation resemble mine?".



Well at least you got your 3 months. If I got 3 months with Shanna and it didn't work out, it would still be better than knowing we easily could have been together if only I had talked to her. This is my true delimma.



Thanks. Just to make myself feel a little better, I've recently though of the cons of hooking up with her.... lets see.... for one, we live around 60-80 miles away from each other (it's around 30 miles for each of us to get to the city where I work, I live in one direction, she lives in the other). For another, she has a kid to take care of, so that in itself severely cuts down on our time to spend together. On top of that shes been working at least two jobs over the time I've known her, so that cuts the time down even more. Lastly, she's a smoker, and I'm asthmatic (do the math).

I dunno, even though I really want to be with her, and maybe even if she really is as great a person as I think, she's prolly not the best girl for me. I can forsee a lot of problems showing up early on now that I stop to think.

Maybe the whole Valentine's Day fiasco was a sign. I mean it was so perfect, but ended up being such a frustrating disaster. If that's not a sign, I dunno what is.

Meh. I know I'm going to keep bouncing back to this for a while, so I might as well just accept it.

I have some advice, but its not suited for a non-NC-17 forums.


[size=0]It involves a lead pipe, a little pill, and 20+ years in prison. [/size]

How about you use words suited for a non-NC-17 forums cuz I would love to hear this advice.

It makes me curious too, what is it? and by non-NC-17 forums...??? WET and TCE are M rated games - we should specualte that anyone playing should be around 16-17+ and are mature enough to hear that. Plus do you really expect kids who are still disgusted by the opposite sex would be in these forums? lol.

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Well, Muska, if that is what you feel is the right way to go then go for it. If not, there's always someone else out there.

I assumed it was against the forum rules, seeing as how it was disgusting, tactless, and involved illegal actions.

By non-NC17 forums, I know 5 people on theses forums that I know for a fact that are 14 and under, and they don't need to hear what I have to say. (I game with these players, and know them rather well.)

lol PM the three of us then. Hehe

Yeah, it'll make for a good laugh, at the very least.

Definetely. I was reading and watching Othello the past week - let me say that I know what he is feeling. lol. but the past is the past, time to turn the other cheek and forget about it. Plenty of fish out there.

Yeah.

I know this sounds stupid, but a few weeks ago (before this whole thing started back up) I delivered to this one place, and something happened that I'll never forget.
I got up to the door, rang the bell, and was met by a mother and her little girl (a toddler). The little girl handed me the check, giggled, and ran away. She reminded me of Shanna's daughter, and all of the sudden, all the memories of the good times we spent together hit me like a baseball bat to the face.
It was great and horrible at the same time. It was great to so vividly reminisce about all the best times I spent with her, but at the same time horrible because It finally dawned on me that she really was gone.

That moment was possibly the most emotional pain I've ever felt in my life (I haven't had any family member die yet, otherwise this would be bumped to #2).

btw, exactly a week ago since I saw her last.... seems like an eternity.... 'sigh'.....

Well, I know what that feels like but we have to live with it. You cant let those feelings hold you back from moving on and living your life.

Yeah, I have been letting it affect me a lot...it's even got my grades slipping (oh yeah, I've got a math test today , I'm sure that'll be fun).

I guess I can only hope that the phone call I got the other day wasn't from her, that way I might have another potential relationship waiting to be started. As far as I can tell from what I was told, this girl on the phone sounded really interested in getting a hold of me (but not enough, strangely, to volentarily leave her name/number). I'm still severely pissed that my boss didn't write down her number (we have caller-id for God's sake!), or even a name! Nevertheless, I can't wait to hear more from this girl.

Off Subject: Somebody just sent me a text message (someone I don't have in my phonebook). It simply read "Ni", like from Monty Python. I just texted back "WTF? Leave me alone.". I think it's probably my brother's friend (he sent the same message to my brother about a week ago), I don't know anyone else who would do that.
They're prolly sitting in class giggling right now. N00Bs.

How do you ignore a thread so the new msgs don't show up as new =)

Just open it up and it will be marked as read - then simply just do not reply. I think there should be a stop watching function somewhere. I dotn think the forum has it enabled.

If you want to ignore my thread then just, you know, ignore my thread.
I don't see what's so hard.... you just log on, see that this thread has new replies, tell yourself "I'm not going to read this", then you don't.

Why is this even an issue?
I ignore threads I'm not interested in, so what's the problem?